Scribbler - Theepthika Gnanasegaran

A: Hey, she got promotion. B: She is characterless. A: Her monthly income is above 50k. B: She slept with his boss. A: She bought a car. B: Present from her boss. This is how some people label a woman when she empowers in a society. But she only knows how much she fought, sacrificed to become what she is now! It's alright, if your stomach burns to appreciate her but NEVER let you fucking mind and mouth to make a bad impression on her. When a woman wins freedom from criticism only, she will have a HAPPY woman's day.

The sad truth is we all are being influenced by a restless energy and it made us to take the right decisions at the wrong times! Identify this restless energy and know when it’s affecting you, so that you can get rid of it and use your own positive energy! Just try to understand that this restless energy, if it takes control of you, it could slow you down by days, weeks, months or even years, that’s how serious it is! The times when restless energy dominates : 1) when we're surrounded by negative people. 2) when we're forced to do something that you don't like. 3) where respect is not served. 4) when we expect many things. 5) a single negative vibe when we are overjoyed.

This is why, once we've calmed down, we apologies for what we did. When you're angry, try to be calm. Don't throw the words on someone. Pause! JUST REWIND THE SITUATION AND REPLACE YOU IN THAT PLACE. If you made that mistake or been in that situation, how would you expect to be handled!!! Anger burns your inner and outer beauty. Never let anger dominants you. It will stress you, burn you, destroy you. Be calm & be positive. You can ask, so anger is a bad?? No! It's just an emotion. I meant, don't waste your energy for small things, which can be solved quickly. Open your mouth in the right time, argue for the right things and fight for what you need.

Of course, being in a relationship so stressful sometimes. Are you both fighting most of the time? Feeling like, you are only putting efforts and holding it? Well, a true love has all these emotional insecurities. Even roses have thorns to protect them from being eaten by animals attracted to its wonderful smell. Likewise, a true love fight for you and stress for you. Toxic people won't waste time either in arguing or bearing your dramas. But, everything has its limit. If you cannot express your feelings or if you don't have a healthy arguments, it will lead negative consequences. Sometimes being single is better than being in a stressful relationship. Anyhow, communication is the key! Arguments & Fights will neither SAVE or DRAIN the love . In the end, memories only lasts so live the moments happily by avoiding unnecessary arguments and understanding the reality.