Scribbler - Theepthika Gnanasegaran

Feeling insecure in relationship is an universal thing yet it can lead for heart breaking! It differs and depends on the partner with whom you are in relationship. People feel insecure when they need more attention and constant validation. It implies that how expectations causes for an unhealthy relationship. Need to know the hints to STOP feeling insecure ? ⠀ 1. Do NOT be dumb 2. Let your partner know what you feel inside 3. Understand your needs 4. Know how to meet your own needs when your partner is unavailable 5. Not depending yourself on her/him 6. Identify that either she/he is really busy or ignoring you. Be someone who mastered the emotional and communication skills to avoid the unnecessary burden and stress in your relationship.

In this world, everything needs a break - work, race, dance, foods, studies, thinking, sleeping even problems. Likewise emotions also need a BREAK. When we have hard times in our life, we have to focus on that thing. Relationship is a part of our life so we have some other things also to give attention. In that point, we may feel like 'giving attention to someone, commitment, arguments, fights in relationship are waste of time' but it's not. After break up, the two - one who broke the relationship up and the other one who was broken up from the relationship must think that, 'I should not have let him/her go'. It's because, they needed a break not a break up. When we take a break, we are putting our relationship through an ultimate test. We can understand whether we can really live without our partner or not. When your partner ask you for a break up for some other problems, let them know problems are temporary and the relationship is permanent.

It may workspace or anywhere, the leaders who are deserved only should be elected! When even the most laborious individual is squeezing him/herself to take a little move for next step; with their fame, another one is bragging like he/she has done everything for this achievement "POSITION". Is it fair that stealing someone's name and label on yourself?? Don't make one as a leader since he is eligible!! Coz most deservings are optimistically waiting for your recognition.