Scribbler - Theepthika Gnanasegaran

We all are searching for true love in social media or somewhere else but our parents are felt alone at home. Even when they are the people who love us genuinely. Nowadays we all are busy with our work and have no time to spend time with our family. Though, when we get time, we spend it with our friends or loved once. Once we come from the office, when our parents try to talk with us, we show the work pressure towards them that we managed the same anger by a smile at the office. As I noticed, most of our parents are feeling alone that they never show to us. Please keep your phone aside and give your time for the valuable people of your life who gave you a value.

Surrounded by plenty of people but my heart beats for him only Why only him? Yes, he is not usual! He is unique in the way handling me Nothing is equal for his kindness towards me; it is cherished when his kindness turned to care His little eyes shine while seeing my happy face Soothe me when I am in his either palms or arms Frozen me when he looks into my eyes It's beautiful when he pretends to be angry to reduce my anger His efforts to see and spend time with me are splendid He reads my silence He respects my feelings He accepts imperfect me He understands my emotions No ego No secrets No comfort zone No possessiveness My mood swing never been irritation My annoyance never been botheration He no longer said those three words though he never failed to prove it He found the real me Thus; he is special to me Yes! He is rare 💕

Feeling insecure in relationship is an universal thing yet it can lead for heart breaking! It differs and depends on the partner with whom you are in relationship. People feel insecure when they need more attention and constant validation. It implies that how expectations causes for an unhealthy relationship. Need to know the hints to STOP feeling insecure ? ⠀ 1. Do NOT be dumb 2. Let your partner know what you feel inside 3. Understand your needs 4. Know how to meet your own needs when your partner is unavailable 5. Not depending yourself on her/him 6. Identify that either she/he is really busy or ignoring you. Be someone who mastered the emotional and communication skills to avoid the unnecessary burden and stress in your relationship.

In this world, everything needs a break - work, race, dance, foods, studies, thinking, sleeping even problems. Likewise emotions also need a BREAK. When we have hard times in our life, we have to focus on that thing. Relationship is a part of our life so we have some other things also to give attention. In that point, we may feel like 'giving attention to someone, commitment, arguments, fights in relationship are waste of time' but it's not. After break up, the two - one who broke the relationship up and the other one who was broken up from the relationship must think that, 'I should not have let him/her go'. It's because, they needed a break not a break up. When we take a break, we are putting our relationship through an ultimate test. We can understand whether we can really live without our partner or not. When your partner ask you for a break up for some other problems, let them know problems are temporary and the relationship is permanent.

It may workspace or anywhere, the leaders who are deserved only should be elected! When even the most laborious individual is squeezing him/herself to take a little move for next step; with their fame, another one is bragging like he/she has done everything for this achievement "POSITION". Is it fair that stealing someone's name and label on yourself?? Don't make one as a leader since he is eligible!! Coz most deservings are optimistically waiting for your recognition.

A: Hey, she got promotion. B: She is characterless. A: Her monthly income is above 50k. B: She slept with his boss. A: She bought a car. B: Present from her boss. This is how some people label a woman when she empowers in a society. But she only knows how much she fought, sacrificed to become what she is now! It's alright, if your stomach burns to appreciate her but NEVER let you fucking mind and mouth to make a bad impression on her. When a woman wins freedom from criticism only, she will have a HAPPY woman's day.